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By Dhyana Markley

I recently received a question about sex from a subscriber and when I went
to answer it to the best of my ability, it suddenly became obvious to me, with a little prompting from Saint Germain, that probably many people might be interested in yet another point of view about sex and spirituality.
This individual read in a rare book called: The Golden Book Of St. Germain
that S.G. states that one will achieve full consciousness spiritually when one
decides to stop having sex, because sex has been the problem of wasting useful
energies.  Since the book had been translated into Spanish, this individual wondered
if I felt it had been interpreted correctly.  I ask Saint Germain for a response and he suggested that I write the article.  My response you can read below.
July 2008

There are a great many misunderstandings about sex and its place in our society and in spirituality.  In my early Earth life, I believed ALL of these lies of ignorance and misinformation.  It was only in my mature years that I realized almost all of the concepts and beliefs about sex in our "Christian society" were incorrect.  These beliefs were and still are, promoted by those who either didn't know any better, because they have not been properly educated in a more total truth about sex and were ignorant, or they had their own agenda.  Those with their own agenda didn't want others to know what they know, because of the Consciousness, Power and Self-knowledge that Kundalini activation, the balancing of the male and female sides of the brain, will bring. 

Even athletic coaches discourage their athletes from having sex before a ball game because they don't want their players to be relaxed and totally in touch with their higher selves.  Perhaps they fear the athlete will daydream or be distracted during the big game thinking about their girlfriend or higher things.  Personally, I think if they would just teach the players to deep breathe and envision the ball going into the basket, over the net, way out into center field, through the goal posts, etc. that that would do more to win games than abstaining from sex.

However, you don't need to have sex to activate your Kundalini or merge with GOD. [Please see my Kundalini Activation - Brain Integration Technique at:  http://www.ascendedmastersspeak.com/techniques.htm ]

One thing I have learned is that as I became more spiritually oriented, with a focus upon resolving old patterns so I could be happier, I became much more discerning about those individuals I took to bed.  Some people are just TROUBLE and unless you are just trying to punish yourself for some reason, known only to you, these are people you want to stay away from because they will suck out your energy and distract you from your goal of a happy, self-empowered life and GOD-Realization.

I have spent several decades of my 67 years abstaining from sex.   One of the reasons might have been that in 1971 when I was 30 years old, I was shown my future by Paul Twitchell (Peddar Zaskq) and told that I would one day marry a Master.  For a long time I was unable to recall much of that Dream/Vision of my what my life is to be after retirement, but I always remembered that I was to marry a Master.  I just figured it would probably take a Master to be able to put up with me.  I have always been stubborn about what I want, what I know, how I feel and I know that I am a person who needs total freedom.  So, I guess I compared every man I met with my "Dream" Master and who can compete with that?

However, there are good, loving relationships that people have and they support each other without draining the other person's life energy or demanding so much attention that the partner has no time alone to just BE.  Every person needs time alone from the demands of others to figure out how THEY feel and what THEY want to do with their life to be happy.  True partnership of mutual love and respect are great relationships and when you love somebody, sex together can bring about a closeness that is not obtainable in very many other ways.

Your partner may or may not be your Twin Flame or Twin Ray, but you can bet they are in your life because the two of you agreed to be together for awhile before either or both of you were born.  When the time comes, if another person seduces your partner from you, let them go with love and gratitude for the wonderful times and learning experiences you had together.  That will then leave a void in your life so your next loving partner can come to you. 

There is a song that goes something like: 
"It's a shame to belong to someone else when the right one comes along."

This is so true.  There must be a void before Spirit can fill that void with the next situation which will benefit you and your spiritual growth.  The same goes for the loss of a job, loss of your house, or the loss of anything dear to you.

But specifically to answer the question about Saint Germain:
It is well known in many circles that one of Saint Germain's recent lifetimes was that of Sir Francis Bacon, rightful heir to the Throne of England, a position he was never allowed to hold because his mother, Elizabeth I, refused to recognize him as her son.  This action was agreed upon by their higher selves before either one of them was born.  However, at the time this lack of recognition of his place as next on the throne created great hurt and anger in Francis.  Understandably he took his resentment out upon females as a group since he couldn't openly fight his powerful, greatly loved and respected mother.  If he had insisted in public that he was her son, she would have denied it and he would have been greatly embarrassed.

Sir Francis was a brilliant man and an extremely busy one.  He realized that should he ever fall in love, marry and parent children that so much energy would be given by him in those pursuits that he might never accomplish the many things he wanted to do with his life and for which he is now famous.

I cannot speak for Saint Germain, however I can tell you that he no longer holds any negative attitudes towards females that I am aware of.  He is loving and respectful of all individuals, male and female alike. He also has finally forgiven his mother Elizabeth I, now that he can more clearly see his destiny for that lifetime was not to be distracted by the pomp and circumstance of royalty while pursuing his more important life goals. The life of Sir Francis Bacon included ascension while still in his physical body.  After faking his own death and ascension, he became known as Saint Germain.  It is my understanding that he is currently a sexually active individual and no longer has any "hang ups" about sex.  So, as Sir Francis Bacon, abstaining from sex for most or all of his life worked for him, my reasons for abstaining have worked for me.

Regarding The Golden Book of Saint Germain, I am not familiar with this book but I am currently trying to locate a copy of it on the Internet.  Therefore I do not know if it is considered written by Saint Germain while in a physical body or channeled by someone else.  As you may know, words whether channeled or spoken directly are interpreted by the receiver who is often influenced by their own experiences and prejudices.  Perhaps if channeled information, the channel was putting some of his or her own prejudices into their interpretation of Saint Germain's words.

I can tell you though that abstaining from sex or only having sex when you are married to your sexual partner is a concept that religions came up with so that they could have more power and control over people and to create guilt so that people would have to come to them and give them money to find their way back into God's good graces.  Of course all of this is a total lie and it has not worked.  People have always made their own choices about their sexuality, only now they have been made to feel ashamed or guilty about it via laws, rules and religious dogma. GOD would never chose this unhappiness for ITs children.  Man has chosen this.

GOD is within each individual and never needs a priest to make contact with you or you with GOD.  GOD is love.  GOD wants His/Her/ITs children to be happy and to have fulfilling lives.  GOD gave everyone free will, which some accept, some abuse and some refuse... giving their power to others.  It is all a individual chosen experience.

Another thing that the religions tried to hide from their followers is the fact that when the Kundalini is activated and both sides of the brain are filled with cerebral spinal fluid and fully energized, THAT is when consciousness is truly expanded and a person comes to realize that they no longer need anyone of any religion or dogma telling them what to do. 

A person can activate their Kundalini with or without a sexual partner.  Once activated a person will realize that all questions as well as all answers are within them... within each and every individual!  High priests knew this and kept this information hidden from the masses of people.  Thorough research into the sexual activity of the Popes of the Roman Catholic Church on the Internet, for example, will show you that they ALL were sexually active. This was well known by "insiders".  Church leaders only created the "celebacy" rule for their priestcraft so they would have more power over them too.  The creative power of sex and/or the activation of the Kundalini is also known by the group called the Illuminati.   Another example of hippocracy by the clergy are the several evangelists in America which were caught sexually compromised with prostitutes after stating that "sex is bad" to their flocks.

There is an article on my www.AscendedMastersSpeak.com website by Drunvalo Melchizedek entitled:  The Ancient Egyptian Sexual Ankhing which explains a technique to recycle energy which may be lost while climaxing without control.  He suggests at the moment of climax to create an ANKH [think of a vertical line with a circle on top] of energy which flows from the pelvis up to the heart area, then out of the back, circles over head to then reenter the heart in the front of the body.  This keeps all of that sexual energy in the body and one feels more energized rather than depleted after sex.

You will also note that in Kata Daki's Ascension Lesson of December 2007 at:
that she does not recommend NOT having sex, she only agrees that sex with violent men leads to more violence and problems.  We will never have peace on our planet until we have peace in our hearts and we will never have peace in our hearts if we are always fighting or being abused or abusive. 

I too believe that it is mostly up to the women to raise males that respect women and treat them gently.  We must insist upon respect and gentle handling from all males as well as all females.  That means all females have to get our acts together and stop pretending that we don't deserve anyone better than the bully down the street or insecure macho man.  That sort of thinking is the reflection of a very immature and insecure woman. 

I would tell all women to stop looking to others to validate your life and just learn to love and respect yourself.  The rest of your life will take care of itself.  After all, each and every one of us have a Life Plan.  And happiness is a state of mind.

Now, I do agree "somewhat" with what the subscriber stated Saint Germain said in The Golden Book of Saint Germain and that is that sex with the wrong person can be very hard on you, deplete your energy and lower your consciousness if you are not careful.  By that I mean that not only considering the social and emotional problems of having sex with a married person, or freely passing your most precious gift around indiscriminately... which below the 5th Dimension can get you a disease or even death... there is another problem:  When you are truly on a spiritual path, and progressing nicely upon it, then have sex with someone who has a lot of dark, emotional problems to work out, they will often dump this darkness energetically upon you.  The same goes especially for energy healers. 

If an energy healer works on a client OR has sex with a person who has had or is still having sex with a lot of other people, the one with less spiritual consciousness or a lower vibration will often unconsciously "dump" on the energy healer or their partner.  This partner will retain this dark energy, until they can resolve it or "dump" it onto someone of higher consciousness than they are.  Now physically you could think of it as a venereal disease but etherically and energetically you can become sick as well.

Remember, whenever you have sex with anyone you are merging and blending your energies with theirs and if your energy is of a higher vibrating rate than theirs, you can either bring them up to your vibration or they can bring you down to theirs.  The level of your mutual vibrating rate will greatly influence the outcome of your sexual experience.

In the higher worlds sex is considered as natural as bathing and since love permeates these "heavens", it is an accepted practice to "merge" and rest awhile in the bliss of the Heart of GOD.  It also does not carry the "complications" I have mentioned above.  In the higher worlds almost all individuals are balanced in their male and female aspects.  Love is all that matters there and your closest associates are often Twin Mates, Twin Souls, Twin Flames or even Twin Rays, so to say you don't love them deeply enough to want to be close to them and merge would be ridiculous.  However, sexual loyalty can also be found there, especially when Twin Flames and Twin Rays finally find each other.

I am grateful that you chose to spend this time with me and hopeful that you will carefully consider my words.  I am Dhyana.

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Permission is given to share this as long as it remains in its entirety
and proper credit is given.  Thank you.
Diana/Dhyana Markley




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