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This is a series of lessons that is intended to cover many of the aspects of Ascension.  These lessons will be taught by female Ascended Masters of various Orders.  Although all of these Masters are balanced in the male and female aspects of their personalities, these individuals have chosen to manifest female bodies during this time in the continuum of All That Is. Please join us for our weekly lessons.

The following lesson was given on December 12, 2007 by Sehaji Master Lady Mary Magdalene:

I am Mary Magdalene and today I would like to speak about forgiveness.

Much is said about forgiveness in the various religions known to man, yet few give details on how to forgive and when forgiveness is necessary or desirable.  Even various Masters will suggest forgiveness in specific situations yet, few will give even a hint about how this may be done.

The following discourse is my personal view on this subject and may have nothing to do with anyone else's point of view which, of course, is just as valid as mine.

To me, forgiveness is necessary whenever you find yourself getting angry at anyone, including yourself, or anything that has happened that you did not expect from a person and/or "appears" beyond your control. 

It is also desirable in these situations because if strong emotions are not controlled in the moment in which they are created and first manifest, they will just build until they have grown to a size which may create a bomb of emotions that can be very destructive to all involved, especially to yourself.

Now, to just forget about an offense to you personally is not truly possible.  Some people think they have forgiven a situation when, in reality, all they have done is put it on the back burner or hidden it deep within their subconscious.  One day these offensive issues will have to be dealt with one way or another.

Most offenses create anger.  Why?  Because anger is the result of feeling disappointed or helpless and no one wants to feel disappointed by one they love or helpless, not even a child.

It is true that there are situations created by the Group Consciousness that we all are somewhat influenced by, however it is never necessary to feel angry or helpless.  Why?  Because you are creative and powerful individuals with a spark of Creator God within, who have control over your own thoughts, words and actions. 

You can CHOOSE to react to any given situation in a forgiving, passive and accepting way, realizing that you can also CHOOSE to ignore the other person's problem and the fact that they tried to make it your problem too.  Everyone is allowed their point of view and whether or not they want to react to something and even which way to react.

Now, I am not saying that there will not or at least might not be repercussions to your choice, however, those repercussions will then be easier to swallow because you chose them instead of having a situation rammed down your throat, so to speak.

I once created a situation where I found I was greatly offended by the actions of someone I love dearly.  When I asked Creator Source what to do, IT said, "Forgive them a thousand times.  Then forgive them a thousand times more."

I realized in that moment that I was an active party to all of the situations which came forth in my life and that only I could ever control what I thought or felt about them.  Perhaps someone else's laughter or joy might cause me to momentarily forget the pain and anger, but I knew it would always remain within me until I decided to do something about it.


How do I forgive?  I bring the painful issue to the front of my thinking, of my awareness, and look at it, to the best of my ability, in its fullness in that moment... all of the people involved and even some soul searching as to "why" I even reacted to the situation.

Then, I "will" or "intend" that everything and everyone's "emotional strings"  involved with the situation, detach and leave all of my bodies... my most physical one as well as all of my affected light bodies.  People involved in the event are attached to my light bodies by an emotional string created by me or them which ties me to them until the situation is resolved. 

I "will" all of this negativity to form a ball in the palms of my hands.  I then sent as much love, understanding, forgiveness to that ball as I can.  I also ask the Violet Flame of Transmutation to help me transmute this "ball of anger and pain".  I continue this action until the ball either dissolves or transforms into Diamond White Light. (This may take awhile.) Once it is fully transmuted, I toss it into the Heart of Creator God and consider the whole thing forgiven.

This technique is very empowering and can even help small children.  If an adult will help a child learn the technique, then remind them of it whenever the adult sees the child angry in the future, that child will greatly benefit from the power and control it gives him or her over his or her own emotions.

There are many, many ways that resolution can happen, as many ways and techniques as there are sentient beings in the Universe.  I don't always use the one above.  Sometime I catch my anger so fast that in an instant I realize that I do not want to participate in a certain emotional exchange of energy and I resolve it immediately.  I literally "uncreate it" before it becomes a true creation.

It is all in how much you practice controlling your thoughts and reactions.  The more you practice true forgiveness, the faster you will become at it.

One last point:  If you feel you are judgmental in ANY situation, may I suggest that before you say or do anything, you pull yourself back and ask "Why am I reacting in this way?"  Often it will be because you feel like you know what is best or that someone is threatening you or your power and influence in some way.

Everyone is allowed to live their own life and to think and do what they feel and know is best.  Everyone.  It is a God Given Right.

When we start to look at others as if they are exactly like we are, then we will realize that they too are feeling their way in life one step at a time, as best they can with the talents and tools they gave to themselves, just like we are, and it will be easy to understand and forgive actions that we only "assumed" were a threat to us.

Why create a perceived threat when none was intended, or even if it was intended, why react?  Often when a person is "kindly" questioned as to why they said or reacted in a certain way in that moment, they will stop and consider this and become more aware of the underlying cause(s) of their actions and reactions.  This is educational and growth for all involved.  Let us do it with awareness.

Remember, we are all teachers AND all students.

I am Mary Magdalene and I thank you for sharing your day with me.

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Dhyana Markley

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