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This is a series of lessons that is intended to cover many of the aspects of Ascension.  These lessons will be taught by female Ascended Masters of various Orders.  Although all of these Masters are balanced in the male and female aspects of their personalities, these individuals have chosen to manifest female bodies during this time in the continuum of All That Is. Please join us for our weekly lessons.

The following lesson was given on May 9, 2006 by Sehaji Master Lady Prisca :

I am Lady Prisca and today I would like to speak with you about the relationships between males and females and how trust plays such an important role in these relationships.

Upon his or her mother's knee, a child is taught to either trust or not to trust.  If the mother is responsible and loving, her child will become responsible and loving.  However, if the mother is reluctant, frightened of the responsibilities of motherhood or even ignores or threatens her child because she is drunk, on drugs or for a number of other reasons, that child will often grow up to become an individual who finds it difficult, if not impossible to trust.

When such damage is done to a Soul, it must be healed before any situations will be handled with a large degree of trust on their part.  This, of course, carries over into all relationships, especially a marriage or intimate relationship. 

So, what does this mean to most of us?  It means that every day we are likely to meet someone or be involved in some sort of dealing with a non-trusting person, be it a taxi driver, a passenger, a doctor, a patient, a check-out person, a customer or any person in any situation in life.  We are always inter-relating with others and some of these individuals are in pain.

"But I'm not a doctor!" you might say.  "How can I help these people?"

I am not suggesting that you form the intent to "heal" all you come in contact with or even overly concern yourselves with these individuals.  However I am suggesting that you can greatly influence their lives and healing processes in positive ways by being patient, kind and trusting them to the degree that it feels safe for you to do so.  Because, the fastest way for any of us to heal, or find love, or find trust is to give it to others first.  That makes the other person feel safe and appreciated and encourages them to open their heart to you.  That open heart can then create miracles.

Lack of trust issues often carry over into male/female relationships, especially marriages.  If one were to observe successful marriages, one would usually find that the individuals involved compliment each other.  Now I don't mean that they tell each other how handsome, beautiful or wonderful they are every day, I mean that they do things together that compliment each other.  Perhaps the female is a good cook but the husband likes to give his wife a day off every once in awhile so his barbecues a few meals a week.  Or he might set the table and pour the wine while his wife is getting their meal ready.  She might hold or hand him tools while he's trying to fix something.  They are supportive of each other and compliment each others talents and skills.  This builds trust and creates a lasting relationship.

Now, not everyone needs to have someone hand them tools or set the table, but everyone needs help in some way or another at some moment in time.  Sometimes it's as simple as loaning them a pencil or helping them get up or down from a curb.  There are a thousand opportunities a day for each one of us to do something, to help someone in need and this will establish a trust in those people that Spirit cares about them, God cares about them, and that it is safe to trust that life will not always crush them down.  Now that to me is real healing and everyone can do it!

Love, respect, kindness, compassion and even truth are powerful healers and we all can use these tools without needing anyone to hand them to us.  I am hopeful that all of you reading these words today will take to heart the points that I am trying to convey to you and put them into action.

Many people in today's world feel powerless to make even a slight a change in their life.  They are overwhelmed with just surviving, getting the kids off to school, getting to work, keeping a job that they may or may not even like, then getting home while there is still daylight enough to spend at least a few hours with their loved ones.  It seems as though there is no time to think of yourself let alone others in a meaningful way. 

Yet I say to you that it is a simple thing to be kind, thoughtful and compassionate in all of your dealings with others and in that simple point of view lies happiness not only for yourself but for all who are fortunate enough to have their lives touched by you.  In this way you become a great healer of your world and that healing will reflect exponentially from your world into the daily world of others and their more beautiful world will touch even more lives, more personal worlds, until at last you all live on a planet of peace and appreciation for all life.

Miracles can happen with just a small step, a small gesture, a kind and compassionate word.  Imagine what a miracle it would be if someone you touched no longer feared they might be abused, no longer feared that no one appreciated them just for existing, that they no longer feared whether or not they would have a place in this world that they could fill.  Imagine what joy that would bring to you if you were that person.  Imagine the trust that would slowly manifest in your life as life itself validated your worth. 

Is that not a worthy gift to give and a worthy gift to receive?

Let's now bring this closer to home.  Sometimes it is easier to be kinder to strangers than it is to be kind to those in your own family, your own home.  We often think that "They have to love me.  We're family."  Many people abuse those relationships by taking them for granted and physically or verbally attacking the ones who love them most.

True, family members are usually the ones that helped us formulate our personal Life Plans and they agreed to help us out with the hard lessons, but I think that even hard lessons can be made easier with the help of kind and considerate, compassionate and loving family members. 

So, who starts first.  Who puts their neck out first and acts a bit out of character by being kind to your pesky younger brother or helps to set the table without being asked or tidies up or mows the lawn without being paid an allowance?  Logically it would be you, because you now know what a wonderful opportunity you have to bring greater love and trust to your family and friends just by being a bit kinder and helpful to everyone in your life.

I am not asking you to do everything for everyone else, making yourself a martyr in the process, but I am asking that you consider being a bit helpful to everyone who appears to need just a little help to get them going on their way.  In this way everyone learns to trust that Spirit will always provide whenever there is a true need.  In this way you will become an even greater instrument for Spirit and beloved one in service to All That Is.

I am Prisca and I am grateful that you have shared my words on this day.  Go forth with love in your hearts and be that which you truly are, reflections of Creator God.

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Dhyana Markley

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